Discreet dating for married people in Sheffield

Who you'll meet, and what it costs

Joining, building a profile and browsing are free; reading and replying to messages needs a paid membership, and the prices page has the options. Checkout shows the billing name before you pay. Prices have so far been shown in US dollars, so your bank converts the charge. Members in Sheffield are part of Marital Affair's UK membership, and because profiles are shared with partner sites in the same network, some people you hear from will have joined elsewhere.

Sexual health: Sexual Health Sheffield

The city's NHS service is Sexual Health Sheffield, run by Sheffield Teaching Hospitals at the Royal Hallamshire Hospital (Entrance 11a, B Road, Glossop Road). It says all its services are free and confidential.

For chlamydia and gonorrhoea you can screen yourself: self-testing kits are available at the clinic without an appointment during routine clinic hours. For other tests, or if you have any symptoms, book with the team. Our guide to sexual health with a new partner explains testing windows.

If someone tries to scam or threaten you

• Report Fraud, at reportfraud.police.uk or on 0300 123 2040.
• South Yorkshire Police on 999 if you are in danger, or 101 for non-urgent reports.
• The Revenge Porn Helpline for adults whose intimate images are being shared or held over them.

Keep the evidence, stop replying and report the profile through our help centre. The guide to scams and blackmail shows how these usually play out.

The law in England

Adultery is not a crime anywhere in the UK, and in England a divorce no longer needs a reason: no-fault divorce has been the law in England and Wales since 6 April 2022, and couples can apply jointly. The UK page sets out the rules in each nation, and our guide to separation and divorce goes further. None of this is legal advice; speak to a family solicitor before acting.

Talking to someone

Relate counsels individuals and couples, mostly online, with fees set by household income. Samaritans are on 116 123 at any time. Our getting support page lists more.

Before you meet

Our safety page and the guide to meeting safely cover first meetings, and the discretion page explains what the site shows and sends: the billing name, account emails and who can see your profile.