In short
Marital Affair is a discreet dating site for married and attached adults, and this is its local guide for Leeds. Joining and browsing are free; messaging is paid. Leeds Sexual Health, run by Leeds Community Healthcare NHS Trust, is free. Report scams to Report Fraud on 0300 123 2040, or call West Yorkshire Police on 999 in an emergency.
| Sexual health | Leeds Sexual Health, all services free |
|---|---|
| Run by | Leeds Community Healthcare NHS Trust |
| Report a scam | Report Fraud, 0300 123 2040 |
| Police | West Yorkshire Police: 999, or 101 if not urgent |
| Divorce | No-fault in England since 6 April 2022 |
Who you'll meet, and what it costs
Joining, building a profile and browsing are free; reading and replying to messages needs a paid membership, and the prices page has the options. Checkout shows the billing name before you pay. Prices have so far been shown in US dollars, so your bank converts the charge. Members in Leeds are part of Marital Affair's UK membership, and because profiles are shared with partner sites in the same network, some people you hear from will have joined elsewhere.
Sexual health: Leeds Sexual Health
The city's NHS service is Leeds Sexual Health, delivered by Leeds Community Healthcare NHS Trust with partners including Leeds Teaching Hospitals. It covers STI testing, contraception, HIV support and PrEP, and it says plainly that all its services are free. One of its clinics is in the Merrion Centre in the city centre, and its website lists the other clinics and its online services. The team also runs a monthly drop-in at Kirkgate Market.
Our guide to sexual health with a new partner covers what to test for, and when a test is too early to be reliable.
If someone tries to scam or threaten you
- Report Fraud, at reportfraud.police.uk or on 0300 123 2040, for romance fraud and sextortion.
- West Yorkshire Police on 999 in an emergency, or 101 for anything else.
- The Revenge Porn Helpline if someone shares, or threatens to share, intimate images of you.
Don't pay. Keep the evidence and report the profile through our help centre. The guide to scams and blackmail describes the usual patterns.
The law in England
Adultery is not a crime anywhere in the UK, and in England a divorce no longer needs a reason: no-fault divorce has been the law in England and Wales since 6 April 2022, and couples can apply jointly. The UK page sets out the rules in each nation, and our guide to separation and divorce goes further. None of this is legal advice; speak to a family solicitor before acting.
Talking to someone
Relate works with individuals as well as couples, mostly online, and sets fees by household income. Samaritans are on 116 123 at any time. See getting support for more.
Before you meet
Our safety page and the guide to meeting safely cover first meetings, and the discretion page explains what the site shows and sends: the billing name, account emails and who can see your profile.
Questions people ask
Where do I get a sexual health check in Leeds?
Leeds Sexual Health, delivered by Leeds Community Healthcare NHS Trust with partners including Leeds Teaching Hospitals. All its services are free: STI testing, contraception, HIV support and PrEP. Its website lists clinics and online services.
Is adultery illegal in Leeds?
No. It isn't a crime anywhere in the UK, and a divorce in England has not needed a reason since April 2022.
Who do I tell about a romance scam?
Report Fraud, online or on 0300 123 2040, and your bank straight away if money has gone. Call West Yorkshire Police on 999 if you feel at risk.
Keep reading
- Discreet dating for married people in LiverpoolFor Liverpool members: axess sexual health, reporting scams and threats, the law in England and support.
- Discreet dating for married people in LondonFor London members: free SHL.UK home testing, reporting scams and threats, the law in England and where to get support.
- Discreet dating for married people in ManchesterFor Manchester members: The Northern's sexual health service, reporting scams and threats, the law in England and support.
- Discreet dating for married people in NewcastleFor Newcastle members: the New Croft Centre, DIY STI kits, reporting scams and threats, the law in England and support.
Sources
- Leeds Sexual Health
- Leeds Sexual Health, Merrion Centre, aidsmap
- Find a sexual health clinic, NHS
- Report Fraud and Cyber Crime Reporting Centre
- Revenge Porn Helpline
- New divorce laws from 6 April 2022, GOV.UK
- Getting a divorce, GOV.UK
- Counselling services, Relate
Checked 9 November 2026. Spotted something out of date? Tell us.