Discreet dating for married people in Glasgow

Who you'll meet, and what it costs

Joining, building a profile and browsing are free; reading and replying to messages needs a paid membership, and the prices page has the options. Checkout shows the billing name before you pay. Prices have so far been shown in US dollars, so your bank converts the charge. Members in Glasgow are part of Marital Affair's UK membership, and because profiles are shared with partner sites in the same network, some people you hear from will have joined elsewhere.

Sexual health: Sandyford

Sandyford is the specialist sexual health service for NHS Greater Glasgow and Clyde, with clinics across the board area. Its main city clinic is Sandyford Central, 6 Sandyford Place, G3 7NB. Sandyford says all its services are free, sensitive and confidential, and prescriptions are free too.

How you book depends on what you need. STI testing without symptoms, PrEP, and coils or implants are booked online. STI testing with symptoms, PEP after a recent risk, and the first prescription for the pill or injection are booked by phone on 0141 211 8130, Monday to Friday, 8.45am to noon and 1pm to 4pm. Our guide to sexual health with a new partner explains what to test for.

If someone tries to scam or threaten you

Reporting works differently in Scotland. Report Fraud doesn't cover it, so:

• Police Scotland on 101 for fraud, sextortion or threats, or 999 in an emergency.
• The Revenge Porn Helpline, which supports adults across the UK, for intimate image abuse. In Scotland, sharing or threatening to share intimate images is an offence under the Abusive Behaviour and Sexual Harm (Scotland) Act 2016.

Don't pay, keep the evidence and report the profile through our help centre. The guide to scams and blackmail covers the usual scripts.

Scotland's divorce law

Adultery is not a crime in Scotland, but it does still have a place in divorce law. A Scottish divorce is granted when a marriage has broken down irretrievably, shown in one of four ways: adultery, unreasonable behaviour, one year living apart with your spouse's consent, or two years apart without it. That is different from England and Wales, where no reason is needed. The UK page compares the rules across the UK. None of this is legal advice; speak to a solicitor before acting.

Talking to someone

Relationships Scotland is the national charity for relationship counselling and family mediation, with an InfoLine on 0345 119 2020. Samaritans are on 116 123 at any time. Our getting support page has more.

Before you meet

Our safety page and the guide to meeting safely cover first meetings, and the discretion page explains what the site shows and sends: the billing name, account emails and who can see your profile.