If you’re a woman looking online for a partner to have an affair with, there is both good news and bad news awaiting you. First, the good news is that there are going to be more men than women, so the ratio is in your favour. The men have a tougher time of it online, because there simply aren’t as many women out there looking. The bad news is that a lot of the men out there simply won’t have the quality you’re looking for, because they make things up about themselves, or they’re looking for something that’s not quite what you had in mind. You can weed out a lot of these problems, though, by making your profile the right way. Check out these mistakes that too many women make with their online profiles.
1. They show too much in their profile pictures
OK, let’s face it. If you’re looking for an affair, you’re not looking for Mr. Right. Instead, you’re looking for Mr. Right Now. If you have a picture of yourself looking sexy in a bikini, then there’s no reason not to add that to your profile. But if you only show body shots of yourself and those shots show you with either a little bit of lingerie or nothing at all on you, you’re not doing yourself a lot of favours.
Why? Well, if you just put up risqué pictures of yourself, you’re going to get messages from every guy on that website. While there are some quality guys out there looking to mess around, there are also a lot of single, obese, creepy guys who are just crawling through these websites looking for something. If your profile’s emphasis is basically a soft-porn look, you’ll have something like 400 messages in the first day, but you will probably only like a handful of the guys.
2. They dish too much about their current situation
If you’re looking for an affair online, you have something in common with everyone else on the website. In other words, you’re looking for something you don’t have at home. Some of the people on the website are single, but others are married too. Is your spouse not attentive to your needs? Get in line — everyone else has the same complaint. Are you feeling like your life is in a rut? Ditto everyone else.
So don’t spend the first three paragraphs of your profile talking about what a fat schmuck your husband is. Instead, talk about what you’re looking for in positive terms, and talk about why men should hit you up. The men who are looking for an affair aren’t looking for another person to listen to — instead, they’re looking for someone to have fun with. They already have someone at home who vents more than they would like.
These two mistakes are among the most common profile killers for women. Put up some classy pictures of yourself, and be positive in your profile. Those two steps will put you way ahead of the game.Tags: Adult Dating, married dating, online dating